Solving for Y when you want X may lead to wasted time
When solving for a problem X, you will likely come up with potential solutions. Let's say you get stuck as part of this troubleshooting—you think if you solve Y, that will help with X. Therefore, you ask for help with Y.
Doing this may mean you get helpful ideas to solve Y, but if Y is not an applicable solution to X, you are never going to solve your problem.
Therefore, Ask to help solve X not Y.
Solving for Y when you want X — Nails 💅
Dana: Help with better nail prep please? 😮💨
Gemma: Make sure to dehydrate the nail ☺️
Result: Great advice, but the nails still peel off. Why? You wanted long-lasting nails, but your problem wasn't your prep—you've been forgetting to cap the free edge.